1. A regular routine of chores is already set down, which she consistently needs. I would make sure it is understood that it is not allowed to go more than the number of hours per week which we agree on before I move in. I asked her how specific she was about how she wants the chores done, and she assured me she is not picky at all. Those are relative terms, so I asked very specific example questions, and received good answers.
2. I have gotten used to briefly losing access to my living space from time to time. However, feeling limited or censored in my living space is something I am thinking about very seriously. I need to visit and meet her to get a better sense about this.
3. I am confident that if it goes sour, it would have little or no effect on our relationships to our mutual friend.
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Date: 2010-11-11 08:59 pm (UTC)1. A regular routine of chores is already set down, which she consistently needs. I would make sure it is understood that it is not allowed to go more than the number of hours per week which we agree on before I move in. I asked her how specific she was about how she wants the chores done, and she assured me she is not picky at all. Those are relative terms, so I asked very specific example questions, and received good answers.
2. I have gotten used to briefly losing access to my living space from time to time. However, feeling limited or censored in my living space is something I am thinking about very seriously. I need to visit and meet her to get a better sense about this.
3. I am confident that if it goes sour, it would have little or no effect on our relationships to our mutual friend.