Aug. 4th, 2009

nemorathwald: (I'm losin' it)
Is there a lull in flamewars, or am I just not on the right forums anymore? Summer time, and the living is easy. So I choose now to post this. There's very little point in pointing out essays like this to anyone who is currently hunkered down in a fortress of defensiveness. They'd just feel you're making up rules to impose; and will promptly ask who died and made you king.

There is a new essay by Mark Rosenfelder on The Zompist, "On Arguing." Even if you're conflict-averse, you will see arguing in your life. If it turns ugly, "On Arguing" will help you judge the appropriate levels of social consequences to mete out for what you had to sit through.

Sample: "It’s the exaggeration and the malice that distinguish a real straw man from an honest misunderstanding."

Another useful essay on this topic is "How to Disagree" by Paul Graham.
nemorathwald: (Default)
My agency left me a voicemail to say the good client asked for me back again!

The drive will be shorter, because I now call Westland home. The only moving that remains basically to throw the last bits of stuff into a huge bag, and clean the old apartment.

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